In my day I could put it away with the best of them. No one partied any harder than I did. Yet I seldom missed work over it (a few times as no one is bulletproof) and suffered some intense hangovers. But I went to work.I've often thought that the hardest thing to learn is to be honest with yourself.
According to leading shrinks, by the time children are 10 years old, the vast majority of their influences come from their friends. ...a parent better hope that they've taught their children the important things by then, because from then on, a parent's influence will be minimal. Even then, it's a crap shoot.
There are zero boundaries to alcoholism...... it will destroy you if you let it.
Yet, many people can enjoy a few drinks a week, and never have a problem (hopefully).
Never drank at work either. Way to much could go wrong.
Thing is, I decided to stop the hard stuff when it became painful. Just pushed it away and drank beer. Then that became a burden when my A1C numbers got scary. Just pushed it away.
MM you made a choice and stood by it.