I don't agree with you on this one. What difference does it make if he is sitting in a room watching TV or out playing golf?He did the first day, out of "respect" for the families. I personally think it's very bad form to hit the links on the day that some of those kids were being buried, especially given how relatively close he was to to the funeral.
Do you expect him to attend every funeral? Would they have even welcomed him if he had tried?