Here's what you do (while you're waiting to get some training):
Get some snap caps and randomly distribute them with your live ammo in your magazines. Then go to the range and fire away. When you hit a snap cap instead of a live round, laugh at yourself as you fling the barrel of the gun downwards in anticipation of the recoil that didn't come. Practice malfunction drill with snap cap. Rinse, repeat.
THIS, THIS, THIS!!! I preach it all of the time! This will humble nearly any shooter. Even better, have a buddy load a snap cap or two somewhere in a magazine, but don't let you know where it is. Then begin firing. You'll know when you hit the snap cap because your front sight will disappear behind your rear sights. Like Nike said, Just Do It!!!