Get her some Pepper spray and maybe even some "Inert" ones to practice so she can learn how it works with the wind and such.
I would do this
Get her some Pepper spray and maybe even some "Inert" ones to practice so she can learn how it works with the wind and such.
What happened to kickin some azz. 1-2 years probation and 500 for bail. Prolly not the right idea but it will get the point across. Have him sit next to yourself and the father, and you guys can have a little talk with the perv.
It is called "stalking". It is described in the Indiana Statutes. Your PD is wrong if they think they can't do anything about it.
If you don't get help from your PD, contact your prosecutor's Office, the County Sheriff, and the Indiana State Police. Don't stop until you get the help that your daughter needs.
Sure, maybe you can run him off but what about the next daughter....
I think the critical term here is "impermissible contact."
At present, this guy is patronizing a business open to the public and showing inordinate interest in a young woman. Legally, there's nothing for a LEO to hang his hat on, even when the purpose of the man's interest is obvious.
But once this character has been NOTIFIED that his conduct is causing the aforementioned "emotional distress," a LEO has something to work with.
That's why someone needs to confront this guy (in a calm, non-hostile way) and the conversation needs to be witnessed.
He is middle eastern, possibly Indian,
What about the part of the diffinition that says "includes but is not limited to repeated or continuing impermissible contact"? His behavior is repeated contact. If the guy is going there and then leaving when the girl isn't working, patronizing the business isn't his true intentions.
So the owner of this business is officially a dirt-bag, in my opinion. My niece did not work on Wednesday, but when she went back in, she asked the owner if the creeper showed up on Wednesday, & he said Yes. She asked if he told the guy not to come back, and he got defensive with her. He said "He hasn't actualy done anything ileagal, so I cant tell him not to come back, besides, if I do he might retaliate and do something bad, or he might sue me".
Of course all of us know this isn't the case. This creeper comes in almost every week & spends $45, and that's all he really cares about. His big solution was to take her off Wednesdays. This place is Sushi Express in Avon, behind the Arby's. This guy also owns Tegry Bistro in Brownsburg. Never again will this loser get my business, & he will forever get a bad review when anyone brings up either one of his restaurants.
she should talk to her manager and make him aware of the situation,so he can re assign her when the guy come over, also she can have some witness to back up in case the police need to be called in, if the guy insist to come over and bother they can get the police to advice him not to come over any more. but i don't think you should get involved with the guy, the responsibility is of the manager to protect the employees.
Is she going to quit? Or are you going to wait and see if the guy switches days right along with her?
The guy is a dirtbag for telling me to my face that "Yes, the customers behavior was innapropriate, and yes, he would ban him next time he came in", and then getting defensive with her after he refused to do what he said.So wait, the guy's a dirtbag for wanting people to spend money at his business?
Don't get me wrong, I am sympathetic for the girl in all this, but she is gonna have to learn to deal with it. From the owners point of view its either a easily replaced 15 year old greeter that costs him money or a regular customer who gives him money. As "creepy" as this guy might be, she should be grateful he comes in because of her and basically pays for her shift. Working for a living is not all about dodging work and chatting with friends, its about going in every time and justifying your continued employment.
Unwanted advances are never fun, but they are a fact of life for most women, and even men. Deal.