if i am reading this right you do not have the number of posts to even be offering on this site so you and the seller are in the wrong here again READ THE F.A.Q. on this board...HELLO MODS
I've never had any "flake outs" or "raw deals" dealing with anyone here on InGO. I've met several members of InGO in transactions and all were pretty smooth. I thought the iTrader was a good reason for that. I've mUnfortunately from time to time there are a few who do not care about rules or rep as long as they are the ones that get the deal.
But a deal is a deal in the good faith of things it should have went well for the OP.
On a personal note, and this is just my opinion, anyone here who puts contact info not related to thier InGO account in the ad is trying to skirt the rules. Either by members who do not have the post count or non members who lurk looking for a deal. Again this is just my opinion.
I know some do not have constant access to the internet and this makes selling alot easier. I understand that, but I know at least one member here that verified that I was a member here when I called about his ad last year. He asked me to long on and PM him so he knew I was a "good standing member".
The only issue I've ever had is people not leaving feedback. And that's not been the case every time, but a couple of times it has.
Come on, people. *I* leave feedback on the rare occasion I buy or sell something here. Some people though, just don't.
per the text message i got at 1 am sunday morning- after having confirmed a price with seller and place/time the message said he got a message from you saying you were the one offering 800... negative rep should go to you as well for moving in on a deal... pretty shady especially since it was in the ad full price offer as first offer... guess I was just raised better than that.!