80% over 8 months, 20% over the previous two years.All at once? Or over a long time?
not that it matters, except how could someone NOT know their spouse is doing this unless it was all at one time!?
80% over 8 months, 20% over the previous two years.
Wow...I would have to question just how well I know my spouse and wonder where the money went. Gambling addiction? Secret accounts? There would be a serious lack of trust after learning this. I'm not sure I could stay married to that person and would have to report it to the authorities.
I don't know near enough to make a statement.
I would try to take the money back out of my spouse's accounts and put it back in my in-laws' account and then lock my spouse out of my in-law's accounts until I can talk with them. Absent that possibility, i.e. the money is gone or otherwise out of my reach, I wouldn't do anything until I could talk with the in-laws, which I would try to do ASAP.
As does mine. Except...My wife knows every gun and anything gun related that I purchased before I bought them.