Didn't you notice that they were labeled 'obligations', with the left half being individual 'obligations' and the right half being shared 'obligations'Is there really a sequence or order there? or is it just a list of mitigations?
Of course there is an order in the presentation from left to right but I mean does that imply any order of importance or order of anything - other than they couldn't all occupy the same space at the same time.
Just more evidence (if any is needed) of how many people wish they could make YOU do things that make THEM feel safe
They will natter about choice while trying to guilt-trip you into making the choice they want