Your life is ridiculous
Istanbul is probably the safest honestly
I doubt any of them would be too bad as long as you don't do anything stupid, but you're probably right. I've never been to the Muslim world, and Istanbul would be a good first trip considering it is 1/2 Europe. Thailand and Cambodia are really safe too. Most tourists only fall victim to pick pockets, which I managed to avoid when living in Bangkok. Most who die in SE Asia are killed by angry spouses/girlfriends for financial reasons.