^^^This. Btw, my "partner" and I are finally getting married at the end of March. We've been together almost 24 years and yet have to travel to another state to do so. Anyhoo, I digress.
congrats
^^^This. Btw, my "partner" and I are finally getting married at the end of March. We've been together almost 24 years and yet have to travel to another state to do so. Anyhoo, I digress.
congrats
There is a huge difference between making sure all people have equal opportunity regardless of race and changing the meaning of marriage to include a behavior it never has.
There is still such a thing as religious freedom in this country. If the law wants to let gay marry, it needs to equally respect the freedom of people who will never think of such unions as a marriage. Religious people are not bigots just because they believe that marriage is something sacred and to label them as such over this issue is just as bigoted as racial discrimination.
This issue will not go away just because an activist judge proclaims marriage to be redefined. You can pretend the sky is pink but that won't make it so. If a Christian doesn't want to be forced to put two men on a wedding cake, why should he. Lots of people on INGO like bacon, but don't go to a deli to buy it.
As 2A activists are not likely to stop fighting activist judges, neither are 1st Amendment activists ready to give up the fight.
Nothing good will come of this. As if our country is not divided enough already.
So I happen to be one of those people that thinks marriage is not a religious institution.
However, I have a question for those that feel it is a religious institution. I'm not trying to stir things up, but a genuine question.
How do you view a marriage that takes place between one male atheist & one female atheist that wed at the courthouse? Should that also be illegal in your view? This is a union, defined as a legal marriage under current law, given all of the same benefits, with spouse rights recognized for things like insurance or social security, but it has nothing whatsoever to do with anything based on religion. But do you view it the same as you do your own marriage for legal purposes? If you owned a bakery, would you refuse them a cake? Would you even ask them about their religious beliefs before you took their order?
What about marriages by religious people that are not Christian? If 2 people of Jewish faith wed, do you recognize that? Whose religion gets used to define marriage for the law? Can a Jewish person marry a Muslim?
I just don't see how you can define a marriage, using religion as a base, and not specify which religion. And if you do that, you must therefore exclude all other religions from the law as well. Once you do that, you've opened up a big can of worms.
I sincerely don't believe that the fight to recognize gay marriage as legal is a battle against religion at all. If you view it as an attack on faith, do you also exclude other faiths from being able to wed under the law? I'm genuinely interested to hear thoughts on this without it becoming a thread lock. I'm not trying to promote or discriminate against any religious belief at all.
^^^This. Btw, my "partner" and I are finally getting married at the end of March. We've been together almost 24 years and yet have to travel to another state to do so. Anyhoo, I digress.
Only The Shadow, and federal judges, know what Emanations lurk in The Penumbra!
I saw "Article 1, Section 32. of the […] Constitution [is] unconstitutional" and my heart skipped a beat.
As to the topic at hand, if a Shinto couple marries in Japan, it's a legal marriage. If they move to Indiana, they are still married, and Indiana has to recognize that legal marriage. But if a gay Christian couple marries in Iowa, it's a legal marriage, but if they then move to Indiana, Indiana can ignore that legal marriage declaring for purposes of the state it's not a legal marriage? Excuse me?
Now, if that same couple of Shinto practitioners, prior to their Japanese nuptials, were to move to Indiana, they could still get married here legally, but IndyGal65, presumably a native, has to travel out of state, to a different jurisdiction, to get married? Excuse me?
This is an issue of basic fairness and state-sponsored capriciousness.
I've heard this argument a lot (in the distant past) so I'd read up on it. The "package" you describe requires dozens of separate filings by professional lawyers to get the maximum allowable approximation of a legal marriage resulting in over $3000 in direct costs to the marrying couple. All this to get a product inferior to what a heterosexual couple gains for a single $25 filing in the form of a marriage license. Separate and unequal. Equal protection under the law. Wow. What a concept.While it does offend me that the idea of a homosexual partnership is morally equated to an institution ordained by God, I accept the idea of a homosexual civil union. It's not really marriage, not matter what they call it. Since we already have means in the law for someone to designate another person power of attorney, medical POA, life insurance benefits and such, it seems like not a big deal to create "package' of legal documents that lets someone execute several legal documents simultaneously.
Only if the Social Conservatives try to hold onto their dreams of Theocracy.Well, Texas will turn blue before too long...
I've heard this argument a lot (in the distant past) so I'd read up on it. The "package" you describe requires dozens of separate filings by professional lawyers to get the maximum allowable approximation of a legal marriage resulting in over $3000 in direct costs to the marrying couple. All this to get a product inferior to what a heterosexual couple gains for a single $25 filing in the form of a marriage license. Separate and unequal. Equal protection under the law. Wow. What a concept.
Nothing good will come of this. As if our country is not divided enough already.
So I happen to be one of those people that thinks marriage is not a religious institution.
However, I have a question for those that feel it is a religious institution. I'm not trying to stir things up, but a genuine question.
How do you view a marriage that takes place between one male atheist & one female atheist that wed at the courthouse? Should that also be illegal in your view? This is a union, defined as a legal marriage under current law, given all of the same benefits, with spouse rights recognized for things like insurance or social security, but it has nothing whatsoever to do with anything based on religion. But do you view it the same as you do your own marriage for legal purposes? If you owned a bakery, would you refuse them a cake? Would you even ask them about their religious beliefs before you took their order?
What about marriages by religious people that are not Christian? If 2 people of Jewish faith wed, do you recognize that? Whose religion gets used to define marriage for the law? Can a Jewish person marry a Muslim?
I just don't see how you can define a marriage, using religion as a base, and not specify which religion. And if you do that, you must therefore exclude all other religions from the law as well. Once you do that, you've opened up a big can of worms.
I sincerely don't believe that the fight to recognize gay marriage as legal is a battle against religion at all. If you view it as an attack on faith, do you also exclude other faiths from being able to wed under the law? I'm genuinely interested to hear thoughts on this without it becoming a thread lock. I'm not trying to promote or discriminate against any religious belief at all.
It's been relegated to the trash heap of history for all intents and purposes. The semantics game being played with the "rights" vs. "powers" argument is just a red herring. It's an easy way to disregard the fact that the states no longer have the authority to govern themselves are are nearly completely subordinated to the feds.And state's rights further erodes. Shall we just get rid of this thing called the 10th Amendment now or what?
Actually, they did. And they did it quite frequently. State were never subject to the limitations of the BoR until the doctrine of incorporation was fabricated by the 14th. Even after that, SCOTUS had ruled that the states were not limited by the 1st and 2nd amendments. And it wasn't until very recently that the 2A achieved incorporated status.States never had the right to discriminate.
I've heard this argument a lot (in the distant past) so I'd read up on it. The "package" you describe requires dozens of separate filings by professional lawyers to get the maximum allowable approximation of a legal marriage resulting in over $3000 in direct costs to the marrying couple. All this to get a product inferior to what a heterosexual couple gains for a single $25 filing in the form of a marriage license. Separate and unequal. Equal protection under the law. Wow. What a concept.