jkwparrott
Marksman
I think it depends on your wife. I made the mistake of buying a 9mm for my wife, thinking it was a nice size and that she'd like it. She didn't. So I sold that one and took her to the gun shop where she picked out a Ruger LCR .357 revolver. She's not a big person so I was a bit worried until we went shooting and I saw how good she is with it.