Yeah....when it comes to salvation, I'd be pretty concerned about being right. Eternity is a long time.
Keep in mind, of course, that if your view of salvation doesn't match the Bible, then the most loving thing that we can do is tell you that you're wrong. We're not being argumentative. We don't get any enjoyment out of being "right" and seeing souls go to hell.
These discussions do lend themselves to being very serious talks. I enjoy hearing different perspectives and different beliefs and I feel that I would call most everybody in here a friend. But I have to be blunt: our common beliefs don't mean jack if we die and go to hell. Would you not agree with that? Our perspective has to be outside of this world. We can all hold hands and get along in a giant ecumenical praise session, but that isn't love. The Bible is very clear that there is only one way to heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.”
**John *14:6 *KJV
If someone's house is on fire and you're trying to get the occupants out before it is too late, your conversation might not be all lovey-dovey.
Look, this isn't the Civil Proselytizing Thread or Civil Conversion thread. You've posted SEVERAL things that suggest you do NOT like discussion, but rather imposition of your view.
I should not be judged by you or any other.1 And it is not for you to judge another.2
So, with all respect, my house is not on fire and you are not capable of saving me.
1. 1 Corinthians 4:3
2. 1 Samuel 24:12; Matthew 7:1
So, before we begin in earnest, I have a suggestion and a request.T.Lex,
Do you know for sure that if you died right now that you would go to Heaven.
Edit: Add verse.
The suggestion: https://www.biblegateway.com/ is a very good online resource. The search engine is robust, and you can display parallel texts. I'm using, unless I remember to note otherwise, the New Revised Standard Version, Catholic Edition.
The request: as a sign of mutual respect and good faith (pardon the pun), let us concede that the other may be correct on matters of dogma/structured belief. I can, with honesty and humility, admit that there is a chance contemporary Catholic dogma is wrong. I can accept a non-zero chance that your interpretation is correct.
Would you do me the same courtesy? I am not asking for you to admit contemporary Catholic teachings ARE correct. You are free to believe that there is less than 1/10 of 1 percent chance it is correct, and I would accept that for purposes of this discussion.
To put it another way, we will likely agree easily on what Jesus said. It is the interpretation and application that become problematic. Reasonable people can disagree on the latter items. We should start with acknowledging that we are each reasonable people.
Oh, and if you haven't noticed, I can only address the Catholic church that I know - the post-Vatican II, relatively modern version.