Let's dispense with this silly argument. Government handouts are not equivalent to your private charitable giving. Let's use a real analogy.
So, he lost his job and can't afford food. Would you come over to my house with a gun, point it in my face, and take food from my family to give to him?
That is a proper analogy to compare to the government redistribution that you are advocating.
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How about this question: It's too bad you lost your job...why didn't your save some money for this rainy day?
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And as far as losing my job goes, I got downsized in January. I DID in fact lose my job. I just started a new job last week. But I didn't leech dime #1 off the taxpayer. I had the foresight to set aside money whenever I could. I in fact could have gone another nine months without any income whatsoever. You see, I save my money. It will take me a bit to get back to where I was, and I have to push back my roadster plans, but that's life. My not getting the Backdraft Racing RT3B when I thought I was going to is the biggest inconvenience out of this whole thing.