People that served, but didn't see combat, shouldn't feel ashamed of calling themselves a veteran. Even during World War 2, we had over 12 million men under arms. Upwards of 40% of the troops deployed were logistical support or HQ/Admin (sometimes more or sometimes less, depending on the unit), not to mention all the people that were stateside, keeping the war machine running. Since World War 2, our percentage of support troops has increased, up to 60% (even higher if you include civilian contractors performing roles that formerly were done by soldiers). All these people do essential jobs that keep the guys fighting. If they weren't there, I don't care how tough and well trained our troops are, they wouldn't make it very far without ammo, fuel, medical support, food, intelligence, etc.
Personally, the way I look at it (not having served myself), if you volunteered to be put in harms way and potentially maimed or killed in service of your country, that means something, whether they stuck a rifle in your hands, a spatula and a potato peeler, or a laptop.
That all being said, if you are someone like me (again, not having served) and you go about lying about your service to get respect/discounts/ladies etc, that's despicable and should be called out.
It's a problem because I want to support veterans on my campus. I didn't say it was their problem, but it is a problem, because no one should see themselves in a lesser light because they didn't earn a tab or deploy seven times.
I'm not the least bit ashamed of my service. I just don't see the need of broadcasting it to the world and having it attached to my driver's license so I can get a discount. If I help an old lady across the street, should I get a hat printed with it so I can be congratulated for it?
No.....but that is what we do as gentlemen.......
Narcissism is just as rampant in veterans as any other group.
So tell me......his sacrifice, near loosing life and limb, loosing his brother..........Does that not make him worthy of the title.
Just asking not trying to be snarky. My uncles never pushed the fact on others. They enjoyed the anonymity but during the Nam there was much hate for those in uniform. Different times.
Actually I was just ever so happy when they quit spitting on us. (This actually happened to me twice in 1970 once in San Francisco where it was somewhat expected and again in Muncie, IN where I was not expecting it.
Actually I was just ever so happy when they quit spitting on us. (This actually happened to me twice in 1970 once in San Francisco where it was somewhat expected and again in Muncie, IN where I was not expecting it.
I think so. He's gone now too, and I didn't really get to know him until he was elderly and spent some time with him. He never told any "war stories", but he did tell me several times about Marlene Detrich visiting the military hospital he was in and how she sat on his bed while visiting with the injured men, and a Stars and Stripes photographer took some photos, but the one that ended up in the publication didn't show his face. He would laugh and say "I thought I'd have my 15 minutes of fame, but it didn't work out".
I watched the "making of" or whatever it was called of Band of Brothers. They interviewed several of the actors who played the different soldiers. One of them said he would talk to the guy he was portraying to get info on how to play the part and was actually getting kind of frustrated with him. He said the guys would only really tell stories about their fellow soldiers and not themselves. He finally figured out that if he wanted to portray that soldier, he was going to have to get the info from everyone else and not the guy he was portraying.
For guys who literally went to hell and back that refuse to toot their own horn, there's a big difference between them and guys walking around with "Viet Nam ERA Veteran" hats. I was in the guard unit 2003. I wonder what all kind of Afghanistan or Iraq ERA hats I can find.
Most vets who served during a hot war didn't shoot or get shot at. It takes a lot of people to support those actually in combat. They are all veterans and deserving of respect. It also applies to those who were drafted and honorably served. I don't understand any vet who would not take advantage of the benefits that they earned because they don't feel worthy. All that being said, and I can't believe that I'm agreeing with hornadylnl, but I like to keep a low profile and don't wear any logo apparel showing any service. I consider it an honor to have served. I did it of my own accord, while ignoring a lot of well-meaning advice of people trying to talk me out of signing up. I still have no regrets and couldn't give a darn about the kind of people who protested by taking it out on service members.It's a problem because I want to support veterans on my campus. I didn't say it was their problem, but it is a problem, because no one should see themselves in a lesser light because they didn't earn a tab or deploy seven times.
Most vets who served during a hot war didn't shoot or get shot at. It takes a lot of people to support those actually in combat. They are all veterans and deserving of respect. It also applies to those who were drafted and honorably served. I don't understand any vet who would not take advantage of the benefits that they earned because they don't feel worthy. All that being said, and I can't believe that I'm agreeing with hornadylnl, but I like to keep a low profile and don't wear any logo apparel showing any service. I consider it an honor to have served. I did it of my own accord, while ignoring a lot of well-meaning advice of people trying to talk me out of signing up. I still have no regrets and couldn't give a darn about the kind of people who protested by taking it out on service members.
I'm not the least bit ashamed of my service. I just don't see the need of broadcasting it to the world and having it attached to my driver's license so I can get a discount. If I help an old lady across the street, should I get a hat printed with it so I can be congratulated for it?
So the fact I served at The Pentagon during the Viet Nam war and I was not in combat means I should not be a member of The American legion? The Legion where I take care of the Honor Guard Rifles, and for the last 5 years have shown up and participated in all but one Funeral Detail for a Veteran that has passed, whether combat veteran or not.
BTW, the one detail I did miss I was in the hospital.
I served 50 years ago, and am still serving. No one ever asked for my oath back.
I might add, ever imagine what it takes for a 70+ year old man to stand at attention in 5 below weather for 1/2 an hour, or in 95+ degree heat for an hour or more? I know as do more than a few of my fellow Legion members.