thank you all for you're help i asked her if she would get on here and read some of the post we talked about it and as of right now i can own a gun just have to keep it at a friends house while it is not ideal for HD (lol) its a start i will have to talk to her about gun safety and different locking systems for them. . . . . plus she admitted to being terrified of guns so that has a lot to do with it. . once again thank you all for you're help
This! You and her could also take a few courses to become more firmiliar with your weapon and how to use it properly to defend yourselves. This would also give you both an added sense of security and make her more comfortable in the fact there is a gun in the house. Hell she might even enjoy it and then you have created a monster,lol. Hope it all works out for ya man keep us updated.You have to explain to her that MILLIONS of homes have KIDS & GUNS. SAFETY is the key for both to be under the same roof
Sounds like she already has her mind made up regardless. Get a lawyer and make sure she cant take him anywhere (out of state)without your written consent! My ex took my daughter and ran off years ago and I couldnt find them for years up til a few years ago when I got a letter and notice from her lawyer and the court saying she wasnt my child and I had no rights to her. C.Y.A. man! Im sorry to hear it.i am sorry the boy is ours. i really don't want to leave her or for her to leave me she said if i was going to buy a gun she was going to leave, , , then she said that even if we split up she cant stand the thought of HER(our) son being in a house w a gun so she was going to move down to Florida w some family and try to stop me from seeing my son at all cost which i think is pretty petty
I would go to an Internet Forum and discuss it with Total Strangers instead of discussing it with my Significant Other...
Good post here for all the eunuchs looking to rationalize the garbage relationships they are in. I hope you get your junk back.I would be contacting a lawyer and family court, since you are not married i would establish custody, and the I would start distancing yourself from her. She sounds like she knows exactly how to manipulate you and will for the rest of your life.
Life is to short to live it in a horrible relationship.
Uh, call me old fasion, but why are you not married? ...
Granted 7 years would constitute a common law marriage, but still...
EXCELLENT advice ^.perhaps you can help her overcome her fears be taking some safety classes together.
There is no such thing as common law marriage in the state of Indiana no matter how long a couple is together.