It's all subjective. For reach, CGW makes a reach reduction kit that helps with the trigger reach issue. Works for me, but I'm sure it doesn't work for everyone. Shoot and own what you like, I plan to do the same.
That doesn't help with the safety, though!
Today I finally have to admit that the Tac Ops grip is too big for my hands. Fortunately I have an E2 kit handy. No mag well, but I'll be able to shoot it better.