My mom is a mess and I see why they got divorced. Both my parents are happily remarried and I like the people they have married. just can't be around my mom. she has some issues that she needs to work through. and I hope she works through them and I hope we can some day have a good relationship. But until then I think the limited contact is best.I'm sorry WestSide.....that's very sad.
Besides I have a lot of "adopted" moms at church that took me in and helped me a lot when my parents were getting divorced while I was in high school. I still have good relationships with them.