When my spouse went through this she had a really rough time. They had to remove a lot of thing and 3 surgery's in 1 month (2 in 24 hrs) so during her 6 month recovery I became Mr. Mom and I really sucked at it.
I thank God mine wasn't worse than it was. It was worse than the ultrasound showed and he had to do more than planned. ughh. I know as bad as he sucks at what he's doing, I appreciate it more than I could say. He's stepped up and I appreciate that fact alone