You know this as well: One's true self takes a long road around IF you not genuine. Most people don't know what genuine means. A lot of phonies are amongst us. They spoof and prod, and then implode on themselves, or others.
I know what you mean, but I think a lot of normally "good" people are just being worn down by everything that's going on in the "real" world, and it's bleeding over into INGO. Like Vigilant getting banned. I could see it coming. It's understandable, but still sad.