I know I can be a little too opinionated at times. I can also understand and respect the fact that a lot of people might not share my views but...No, trivializing the fact that the 9 months of pregnancy costs the birth mother in terms of steadily diminishing capacity and capability in her professional and personal life as well as her overall health. To pretend that that is not a consideration in choosing not to carry to term and give up for adoption is disingenuous
I'm certainly not defending the decision, but neither am I pretending that everyone can afford to be progressively more limited in their personal and professional lives for most of a year and then at the end take weeks off in most likely unpaid maternity leave
I have known many couples that had an impossible time conceiving. This includes a sister, a nephew, and another nephew's wife. and many friends that couldn't. My nephew and his wife paid a lot of money with a shot therapy trying to get her fertile enough to conceive. And also able to go full term with a child. And keep in mind that was with about a 40% chance that it would work. Then all the couples trying to adopt! The hoops and money spent they all went thru to try it. With only one these couples that got a child!! Then there was what my high school girlfriend did all because she didn't want to be known as one of the girls that got pregnant in high school!!! In all essence this is vanity. And I to this day still hate her for what she did! So as you can see this subject hits very close to home with me.
Sometimes you get delt a crappy hand. That's life. But it's what you do with that hand that defines what kind of person you are. Me personally I don't believe abortion should be used unless it is medically necessary. That life never asked to be here. And to extinguish it because it is inconvenient should be viewed as immorally wrong and called murder. There is always a better way. It's just society have become too lazy to look for it. But hey this is only my opinion, and everyone is intitled to their own to take to their graves with them.