I’m getting some mixed signals here..Don't be in a rush...
I’m getting some mixed signals here..Don't be in a rush...
You are almost married... Better get used to itI’m getting some mixed signals here..
Not-so-humble brag but we’ve both done counseling for that. Our arguments usually sound more like: “why do you need more guns?” me: “have I told you how lovely you look today?”You are almost married... Better get used to it
Welcome to the CZickness! Mixed signals and enabling are our specialities!I’m getting some mixed signals here..
Well now we have 2 votes for wait and 1 for go for it, who's next? But in all seriousness, there's no rushing to be done here. Next fall will be 3 years with this lovely girl, as long as there are no glaring red flags in the mean time, the plan is next fall. I appreciate you guys looking out though.There's not much better than an evening swing in the hammock.
Websniper is correct. Don't rush, SR (stale ranch)
You've got a plan, that's the main thing. Make sure you two have good communication whether it's good, bad, or otherwise. I've found that to be really helpful in avoiding larger problems down the road.Well now we have 2 votes for wait and 1 for go for it, who's next? But in all seriousness, there's no rushing to be done here. Next fall will be 3 years with this lovely girl, as long as there are no glaring red flags in the mean time, the plan is next fall. I appreciate you guys looking out though.
My advice (unsolicited, of course), is if she's worth it and willing, don't wait. You can accomplish more working as a team than you ever will as two separate players.Oh believe me, it’s on the docket. I’d fix her car a million times over, she’s awesome and deserves a ring. Just waiting for the right time and more money.
Just from the chickens.I’m getting some mixed signals here..
Been married 31 years going on 32 and with her for several years before that. Not a chicken, but also things are a little different today, and successful marriage as you know isn't for the weak.Just from the chickens.
Definitely worth it, she’s been my rock and biggest supporter even as a young adult with all these big life changes happening, not to get too sappy lol.My advice (unsolicited, of course), is if she's worth it and willing, don't wait. You can accomplish more working as a team than you ever will as two separate players.
Buck buc bucaawk. Once should be enough. I'm on #2. Barb is on #4(widowed twice, divorced once) Circumstances are gonna be what they are gonna be and you don't know what's gonna happen next. If you have a good one and you feel you know her, jump in. Don't wait to make a good start. Life gets shorter the longer you're in it. Seize the day!Been married 31 years going on 32 and with her for several years before that. Not a chicken, but also things are a little different today, and successful marriage as you know isn't for the weak.
I'll only do it once and if something happens (no matter what that is), I'll not feel the need to do it again.
People are different today, if just recommend they figure themselves out before pulling another person into the mix.
Or.. perhaps.. CZ the day!Buck buc bucaawk. Once should be enough. I'm on #2. Barb is on #4(widowed twice, divorced once) Circumstances are gonna be what they are gonna be and you don't know what's gonna happen next. If you have a good one and you feel you know her, jump in. Don't wait to make a good start. Life gets shorter the longer you're in it. Seize the day!
Tomorrow is promised to no man.
Well now we have 2 votes for wait and 1 for go for it, who's next? But in all seriousness, there's no rushing to be done here. Next fall will be 3 years with this lovely girl, as long as there are no glaring red flags in the mean time, the plan is next fall. I appreciate you guys looking out though.
Eh, I've been with my wife since teen years and met her when I was in the 6th grade. She's 2 years older than me. I get it. And once will be it.Buck buc bucaawk. Once should be enough. I'm on #2. Barb is on #4(widowed twice, divorced once) Circumstances are gonna be what they are gonna be and you don't know what's gonna happen next. If you have a good one and you feel you know her, jump in. Don't wait to make a good start. Life gets shorter the longer you're in it. Seize the day!
Tomorrow is promised to no man.
Just depends on your situation. No right or wrong way to do it, I feel like. I should also clarify we would just be engaged for the time being, we wouldn’t get married until we could afford it and did some pre marital counseling to work out possible kinks.Eh, I've been with my wife since teen years and met her when I was in the 6th grade. She's 2 years older than me. I get it. And once will be it.
So I hear ya, but I'm also glad both my kids got their masters degrees and got decent jobs, etc before they started getting too far down the relationship paths.
Became married at 29 .... it's now been 44 years.
I had an extra dose of wild oats in my 20's.