I'll agree it was the norm (and felt right doing it) to show proper respect, but more so to the country and ideas as a whole, not necessarily to the dead of war.
I was all like, "yes! indeed!"... then you brought it back to the concept of "for our fallen". I'm not sure I'm on board with that. If that's the way you and others feel, that 100% OK, but to then accuse others of not respecting the fallen because they view it differently is where we divide.
I disagree wholeheartedly with kneeling, but I'm not going to accuse those that do of disrespecting those fallen in war. To do so, potentially opens you up to the counter that you disrespect those fallen to racism. (of course, I wouldn't agree with that accusation)
You mean that almost statistically insignificant number of people that have fallen to racism? I mean real-ass racism and not some perceived racism where none existed? Where it was made up out of whole cloth? That racism?