I was referring to the Butthurt attitude that some adopt when they are informed that we have rules.
Everyone was being so kind, I didn't want to be a total jerk.
The thing that irked me was INGO was being pretty mild, unlike days gone by, and the guy's attitude was stinkin'.
I follow you. But I'm also mindful that things could've gone differently with Les if he hadn't started out on the defensive. Most of us intuitively get it that being a bunch of good guys, and coddling each others' egos are usually mutually exclusive, but not everyone does.