My nephew was kicked out/left home due to some issues at home. Mainly his mom works alot of 16 hr days and wasn't able to keep close enough tabs on him. He just turned 18 and is a junior in high school, he was held back once in grammar school. Hes staying at a friends now, until this school year is done. Then his buddies parents said he's gotta find somewhere else.
I just left a message with the enrollment office at my high school, waiting for them to call me back. I'm kind of lost, not sure of the steps I gotta take. I laid down the rules for him, and he's agreed. I already told him what chores will be expected of him, him picking up a part-time job and not missing school. He knows I won't treat him like a kid.
He's asked me to guide him to meet his goals, I told him if he tells me what he wants to do with his life; once I start to help, failure isn't an option. He wants to join the finish high school, join the Gaurd and eventually become a cop. He's not a bad kid, he's actually a good kid. He just got lazy with his school work and around the house. Then he decided to talk back to his mom and that was her last straw.
He'll be moving in here next month. Any advice is appreciated, like I said he just turned 18, and with this last year of dismal school performance, I'm not sure how easy it's going to be to get him transferred. Any officers here on INGO want to chime in with what would be good steps for him to take so he'll start in the right direction to becoming a cop.
What about a possible GED, instead of high school... I dunno, just thinking outloud. I'm just trying to see all the options there are, to decide on a course of action. I want him to be a good, productive member of society. Thanks for hearing me out.
I just left a message with the enrollment office at my high school, waiting for them to call me back. I'm kind of lost, not sure of the steps I gotta take. I laid down the rules for him, and he's agreed. I already told him what chores will be expected of him, him picking up a part-time job and not missing school. He knows I won't treat him like a kid.
He's asked me to guide him to meet his goals, I told him if he tells me what he wants to do with his life; once I start to help, failure isn't an option. He wants to join the finish high school, join the Gaurd and eventually become a cop. He's not a bad kid, he's actually a good kid. He just got lazy with his school work and around the house. Then he decided to talk back to his mom and that was her last straw.
He'll be moving in here next month. Any advice is appreciated, like I said he just turned 18, and with this last year of dismal school performance, I'm not sure how easy it's going to be to get him transferred. Any officers here on INGO want to chime in with what would be good steps for him to take so he'll start in the right direction to becoming a cop.
What about a possible GED, instead of high school... I dunno, just thinking outloud. I'm just trying to see all the options there are, to decide on a course of action. I want him to be a good, productive member of society. Thanks for hearing me out.