I never had to do anything when my daughters were dating. If their boyfriends got past my wife I knew they were OK.
I did go pick up my oldest daughter from a party she went to after school when she was a 14 year old high school freshman. She promised there was adult supervision, we said OK have the adult call us when you get there. After not getting the call I tracked down the party and went in and pulled my daughter out. Party was not supervised and there was under age drinking. She got to come straight home from school for a month and stay there until school the next day. Think Uncle Buck getting his niece in the movie.
I did go pick up my oldest daughter from a party she went to after school when she was a 14 year old high school freshman. She promised there was adult supervision, we said OK have the adult call us when you get there. After not getting the call I tracked down the party and went in and pulled my daughter out. Party was not supervised and there was under age drinking. She got to come straight home from school for a month and stay there until school the next day. Think Uncle Buck getting his niece in the movie.