MAYDAY help is welcomed and appreciated

[Damsel380]

Also. A good home system will do 80 plus hours of recording before a reset. You can opt for more time but catching folks on camera is just to sweet.

I'm in an apartment, but it's in the front so that makes me feel somewhat secure. I've been looking into self defense classes as well, I might try fireflies free trial they offer but I'm hoping to find someplace my boys can learn as well.

 

[jamil]

Lol hey there's at least a pending annulment on the marriage in Vegas that he paid for so I'll take that as a refund!

I didn't want to keep the guns with me without my LTCH because of the legal issues it could present. I kept them both hidden and out of kids reach.. the first one I'm certain he took it before I moved in with him. I started panicking looking for it as I was packing to move and he looked at me and said "usually when someone steals from you it's someone you know"

He's in jail currently for violating probation but he has made comments to other people about his plans on raping and murdering me. Not comforting at all. He's gone off the wall schizo crazy, talking to voices in his head and threatening to go on a rampage of "killing bitches" ... the mother of his kids sent me voice clips of him that she used to get a protection order for herself.

Thank you for the tips and support! I'll be practicing this week so me and my boys are safe

You might think about using a state funded service to sign up for free notifications if his incarceration status changes. It’s called Vinelink.

VINELink - Empowering Victims of Crime

VINE is the nation’s leading victim notification system, empowering survivors of crime with the updated custody status and criminal case information they need to remain safe and maintain peace of mind.

www.vinelink.com

You’ll want to have a plan for if/when he gets out. Being able to defend yourself is a good start. Having the earliest warning increases your odds the plan will keep you and your boys safe.

 

[Damsel380]

You might think about using a state funded service to sign up for free notifications if his incarceration status changes. It’s called Vinelink.

VINELink - Empowering Victims of Crime

VINE is the nation’s leading victim notification system, empowering survivors of crime with the updated custody status and criminal case information they need to remain safe and maintain peace of mind.

www.vinelink.com

You’ll want to have a plan for if/when he gets out. Being able to defend yourself is a good start. Having the earliest warning increases your odds the plan will keep you and your boys safe.

Thank you, I'll get on there!

 

[KG1]

I haven't carried before. I got my lifetime LTCH a couple months ago.

Thanks for the warm welcome! I got my LTCH a couple months ago but I've never carried before. I've gone through YouTube watching different safety and training videos but that's as far as I've got. I'm going to take the advice on going to Parabellum in the near future. Thanks everyone for the tips here, much appreciated!

Welcome to our community. Sounds like you are on the right track and I encourage you to keep going.

Stay safe and prepared as well as situationally aware.

 

[churchmouse]

These situations have come to he site on occasion and most all the info we have shared is so spot on as to not be ignored or overlooked. The membership here is stellar. Knowledgeable and willing to help.
What we are approaching is the limits we as a forum can discuss and acknowledge and keep Ingo out of any impending legal actions that in my mind are unavoidable in this.
to the OP. We will continue to share training/instructor I so and any legal path you may need to explore. You will be sure the depth we run here. I would only ask we step lightly from here on in please.

 

[Thor]

Welcome, sorry about the circumstances for your coming here. Spot on advice up channel.

I also assume you know that Vegas (and similar venues) is not the place to find dates/husbands now...

Good luck in the future; stay frosty.

 

[actaeon277]

Welcome to INGO.

Just as important as a weapon, is.. keep your head on a swivel.
Not as in, being scared of everything.
More like, being observant of things around you.

Don't walk around with your head in your phone.
Every once in a while, look behind.
Listen to your surroundings.
Listen to your gut instinct.

 

[bcannon]

Welcome to INGO!

Some very good info/advice has been given and I hope you take it to heart. Get some training and practice practice practice.

Actaeon is spot on also.

 

[Cameramonkey]

Welcome to INGO.

Just as important as a weapon, is.. keep your head on a swivel.
Not as in, being scared of everything.
More like, being observant of things around you.

Don't walk around with your head in your phone.
Every once in a while, look behind.
Listen to your surroundings.
Listen to your gut instinct.

This is what he speaks of.

Combat Mindset - The Cooper Color Code

The most important means of surviving a lethal confrontation is not the weapon or the martial skills. The primary tool is the combat mindset.

www.gungoddess.com