You can play devils advocate all you want. This man was well within his rights. I think most of us would have done the same thing.
Devil's advocate was not my intention, nor did I ever say he wasn't within his rights or that I or anyone should or would have done anything different. Just trying acquire all the details to see how I personally believe I would have reacted had I been in the same situation. I believe personal reflection is key to making well informed decisions. I believe in learning from the choices of myself as well as others, so putting myself in their position is one way in which I try to achieve that. I thought that's part of what INGO was about, the sharing of information and experiences to the benefit of all, good and bad while still having a community that has fun.. <Sarcasm> My sincerest apologies to try and gain an understanding and glean some insight both into the situation and myself. Didn't realize I was stepping on everyone's toes on my way way </Sarcasm>
To quote myself: Post 46, section 3.
It (my original post), and this one, are in no way meant to be aggressive in any manner. I'm really not trying to undermine or degrade your decision, just trying to comprehend the circumstances that surrounded it.