people cant fight anymore? are you serious? sometimes violence is the answer. i honestly cant see how the kid could let that happen. i mean if they all gang up on you then there is not much you can do, but they CANT be together all the time you know what i mean?
Do we know the names of the attackers? or Pictures?
Just in case I see want I want to be extra nasty to them.
All I see are 4 queers. Anal penetration isn't hazing, it's gay.There's a link at the top.
Robert Kitzinger, 19, Brandon Hoge, 18, Oscar Falodun, 18 and Scott Laskowski, 19.
They finger banged a 15 year old boy(I didn't see his name listed).
WTF is wrong these kids? how in the hell can they think this was remotely funny?
they have ruined this poor kids life
These punks wont think its so funny when the victim grows up and they find themselves in a hole in his basement rubbing lotion on their skin.
yeah if they did it to my kid, i would hunt them down like dogs. no media or school administrators would be notified, the perps would just be gone forever one day. Kids are supposed to be pure and protected by us. this is a tradgedy.
theres no way this kid will ever get over it. heck just having the people around you know what happened would be an extra embarrassment and tramatic I think. These boys that did this are sick perverts and i hope they get it back in return in federal prison!!!
No disrespect to the people to whom it's happened, but I don't see a whole lot of difference between what happened to their victim and what happens to a person who has been raped. While it is happening, that person is a victim. After it's done, that person has a choice: They can continue to be a victim, their life defined by that one event, trying to play on the sympathies of everyone around them for as long as that lasts or they can choose that event as a turning point and use it as the point where they grew a backbone, where they chose to become stronger and help others in similar circumstances. Such people are no longer rape victims, they are rape survivors.
Ranger (or anyone, really) ,why would you be embarrassed by what some other nimrod decided to do to you, and you overpowered 4-1? It's not like you just rolled over and let them do their worst... I'm sure this kid fought back, but with those odds, he didn't have a chance of winning. Traumatic? Sure. But trauma passes. It's not a forever thing. The physical stuff was over that day. The mental... it stuck around a little longer... but that's in his control, if he just finds the will to do it. If he doesn't, THAT will be what he will never get over, not what four little perverts did to him completely beyond his control.
Blessings,
Bill
No disrespect to the people to whom it's happened, but I don't see a whole lot of difference between what happened to their victim and what happens to a person who has been raped. While it is happening, that person is a victim. After it's done, that person has a choice: They can continue to be a victim, their life defined by that one event, trying to play on the sympathies of everyone around them for as long as that lasts or they can choose that event as a turning point and use it as the point where they grew a backbone, where they chose to become stronger and help others in similar circumstances. Such people are no longer rape victims, they are rape survivors.
Ranger (or anyone, really) ,why would you be embarrassed by what some other nimrod decided to do to you, and you overpowered 4-1? It's not like you just rolled over and let them do their worst... I'm sure this kid fought back, but with those odds, he didn't have a chance of winning. Traumatic? Sure. But trauma passes. It's not a forever thing. The physical stuff was over that day. The mental... it stuck around a little longer... but that's in his control, if he just finds the will to do it. If he doesn't, THAT will be what he will never get over, not what four little perverts did to him completely beyond his control.
Blessings,
Bill
Unless you have been a victim/survivor of rape I don't see how you can even pretend to know how someone deals with that or how they would get over that.
From having taken care of several and having heard others who have moved from victim to survivor speak about it. Again, I mean no disrespect to those who have suffered it, and in no way did I say that they ever forget what happened, but it's a matter of fault. It is NEVER, EVER the fault of the victim, and ALWAYS the fault of the attacker what happened. I'm not minimizing their experience or injuries, but rather saying what I've seen done.
I don't have to have had a heart attack or cancer to know the damage both can cause, nor to know what I can do to help treat them. My goal is only to help, not to malign. If I seem insensitive, I'm not, though you have my apologies for it seeming that way.
Blessings,
Bill
Sit down with that boy and tell him that.
Be sure to tell everyone in that school system too.