WOW! You guys got it rough, we ladies deal with this all the time. One thing is that we know not to hang our purses on the coat hook because while your sitting there, someone can reach over the door grap your purse(any belonging hanging there like a a gun) and be gone before you can get up and dressed. Not my first suggestion for keeping your gun out of the pot.
I have learned that if I lace my belt on opposite the buckle keeps the weight of the holster/gun from pulling the belt out of the loops. If I am carrying on my right side I start lacing my belt through the loops on my right side. Someone suggested re-buckling the belt when your trousers are down and another mentioned this is not comfortable because your legs are too close together. Like I said you guys got it rough.