Two words: "M" and "P".
m&p. I just can't get over the fact that xD mags can be inserted backwards...who would do such a stupid thing you ask? I could imagine under a high stress situation, bobbling a reload and having the mag turn around in your hand may not be too hard to do. Once inserted like that it takes 2 people to get it out...not good in a gun fight.
Those are letters my friend
Can you be any more specific? What are your personal requirements? How do you judge pistols?
Here are some answers from another recent and similar question.
https://www.indianagunowners.com/forums/handguns/231256-m_and_p_or_xdm.html
I have debated this for awhile. I ended up getting the XD-9. Its a great gun and I shoot great with it also. I like the feel, the trigger could leave a little to be desired but still a nice all around gun.
On the other hand I want to trade my XD for a M&P, because I think the XD feels good, but the m&p is great! There is just something about the m&p that I cant shake. I like the xd and I feel like Im not giving it a fair shot but I still would trade the xd for an m&p in a heartbeat. and I dont really know why, never shot the m&p either.
I have tried it and it is BS. I could only get the mag in about an inch before it was tight. I suppose you could hammer it in and then it would take a coule people to take it back out. It didn't work with my XD45 Service or the wifes XDm40.Damn, that sucks! Can't say with the three XD's I've had that I ever inserted one backward - however I've never had to do an emergency magdump; or a "regular" magdump at that either.
I have tried it and it is BS. I could only get the mag in about an inch before it was tight. I suppose you could hammer it in and then it would take a coule people to take it back out. It didn't work with my XD45 Service or the wifes XDm40.
I just want a gun that feels good in my hand. Has a nice smooth short trigger and shoots well.