Wow that sucks.
That shouldn't keep you from trusting other people.
I think if you trust someone enough to make her your wife you should trust her with that too.
Stealing from my safe was the least bad thing she did to me. All of which I found out as I tried to figure out how to take care of my 1 year old son alone and keep my job while she sat in jail for two weeks for check fraud.
I could type pages and pages. I'm a very trusting person by nature, but she broke it in a big big way. Without the kind of counseling I could never be able to afford....that kind of trust is just gone from me forever.