We've decided we need to celebrate annually now. It was a nice day. Five out of six of us kids were there with our spouses. Only one grandchild was unable to attend due to being in the Navy and not being able to get time off. My nephew (also in the Navy) and the other who is a Marine both managed to get time to attend. It was a really nice day. I'm still stuffed...way too much food.
The navy tends to not be very understanding about such things, unless you're assigned shore duty.
One deployment, they didn't tell a guy his mom died, till we were tying up at the pier.