Check out the Kahr CM9.
I have a PM9 (basically the same size) and it is really easy to carry.
hey bro i just bought a diamond back 9mm its the same size as there 38 but its a 9mm great weapon small and light easy to carry forget you have it some times but i also still carry my sig most days but i recommend the d back great weapon and very accurate for the size also recommend a crossbread super tuck holster for what ever you decide to purchase i love mine cant even feel my sig p250 and cant even tell im packing
Diamondback Db9c Semi-automatic Small 9mm 2.8" Polymer Blue 6rd Compensated Barr R&M Precision
For me, the recoil on the PM9 is far better than the recoil on the P3AT.How is the recoil on the pm9? I know it will obviously be more than a compact 9mm but did it take a lot of practice to control it or is it not that snappy?