Exactly this! He might not even remember who HE is after HD splains things to him.I think Harleyrider_50 should talk to him. He'll be so confused after that he won't even remember Cole46845 or even what he was mad at him about.
Exactly this! He might not even remember who HE is after HD splains things to him.I think Harleyrider_50 should talk to him. He'll be so confused after that he won't even remember Cole46845 or even what he was mad at him about.
For those who were worried. I am pretty well protected on that
Even if you didn't do anything to him before, you did do something now.
Trollery. I refuse to believe the alternative, which I also can't state without angering the mods.
That SnS is back?
Cole,
The gun is the last line of defense, not the first. The gun is used if you have failed.
It is not fun to shoot a person.
You really should have talked to the guy. Now that's not an option as you will violate the protective order if you contact him.
You really need to
1. Talk to your lawyer. If you have a business, you should have a lawyer. Hell, if you have a carry license, you should have a lawyer on call. I'm relatively near you and would be happy to refer you to the guy I use.
2. Have a (legal) third party mediate a conversation between you two. I'm not sure "mediate" is the correct word. You need a proxy to talk to his proxy. In other words, have your attorney send his attorney a message. You MUST talk to him somehow. Past sins will be revisited until rectified.
3. Forget you have a gun unless you are forced to use it. If you need to shoot you'll know the time and place. Until/unless that happens, posturing will escalate the situation.
Remember, it takes two to move on. If you really didn't do anything, then that's fine. I reserve judgement and am of the opinion that it doesn't matter if you did or did not do anything, because
4. He has not moved on. You might have, but it's shortsighted to believe that because you have, you can force him to move on, also. Additionally, it doesn't matter a bit whether you did what he thinks you did. If he thinks you did, realize that for him, you did. It's real to him and there will be a reckoning.
You need to be scared, and should be. People who are not scared a little bit are placid and take no action. Fear is a strong emotion but it's also one of the strongest, or perhaps the strongest, motivator.
Talk to the guy. Talk through an attorney, but communicate. Remember, if he goes back to prison, you're the reason. Even if you didn't do anything to him before, you did do something now.
Josh
Anyone starting to think this might be BS?
Honestly, I did learn something from this thread... BS or not.
I had no idea getting restraining orders were that fast & easy.
Yeah, fairly sure it isn't. If it were, people would be taking them out all the time for no reason. I'm sure that at the very least, you don't just walk in, file the paperwork, stand before a judge to make your argument, and walk out with the order during your lunch hour.Judges take restraining/protective orders incredibly seriously, and there are serious repercussions for a parolee violating one. As I write this it occurs to me that may have been tongue in cheek. If I missed that, you should probably take a protective order out against me.Honestly, I did learn something from this thread... BS or not. I had no idea getting restraining orders were that fast & easy.
Like I said.....IF.... I don't OWE ya any......you'd be hard-press'd take'n it from me.....Doesn't sound as stupid as being shot for some money. If you're willing to take a bullet for a few hundred bucks then God be with you. At any rate, it should be considered. OP got himself in a bad situation by knowingly working for a shady boss for multiple years, now he's paying for it.
Inclined ta agree, but........from git'n ta know ya on'is board......don't think you'd be 1 ta intimidate, or bully on yer own property, neither.....would'ja?....I have been walking through this life for a really long time. There is so much more to this.
I think Harleyrider_50 should talk to him. He'll be so confused after that he won't even remember Cole46845 or even what he was mad at him about.
Exactly this! He might not even remember who HE is after HD splains things to him.
Nope, I was being serious. Never had need to investigate them and figured they were (like all legal paperwork) a long involved hassle.Yeah, fairly sure it isn't. If it were, people would be taking them out all the time for no reason. I'm sure that at the very least, you don't just walk in, file the paperwork, stand before a judge to make your argument, and walk out with the order during your lunch hour.Judges take restraining/protective orders incredibly seriously, and there are serious repercussions for a parolee violating one. As I write this it occurs to me that may have been tongue in cheek. If I missed that, you should probably take a protective order out against me.
****UPDATE**** Well after weeks of feeling like a prisoner and dodging my neighbor it has come to a head. I own a landscape company and had some of my employees working at my home today. The neighbor came over and puffed up on my employee asking them where I was at, he was on my property, threatening my employees that I need to contact him. Tomorrow I am going to get a restraining order bc I feel like this guy is a threat to me and my family or friends even! I will keep this thread updated