Tough spot. If you choose to continue this relationship, you must accept the father's legal right to be involved even if you don't agree with his influence.
There a many ways this could be turned to a positive situation, although it probably won't happen overnight. You don't have to necessarily agree with someone to show respect for their position. This in itself could be a valuable lesson for any young man. You can still set a proper example without crossing whatever lines that get drawn in the sand. Sharing your positive experiences will hopefully prove your position for you over time.
Again, as long as the father has a legal right to be involved, you must find ways to operate within those boundaries. If those boundaries are unacceptable, your only choice is to find a way to remove the boundaries from the situation or to remove yourself from the situation.
I'm not trying to make this sound simple because it certainly isn't. I'm also not trying to condone an anti 2A position. I will however condone a father's right to have whatever position he wishes when it comes to raising his son.
This situation could just as easily be about which church to attend, which "lifestyles" are acceptable, or at what age the young man should be allowed to date. It's very doubtful that this will be your last difference of opinion with the father. How you handle this one could eventually have consequences relating to many other things besides just firearms.
Good luck.
There a many ways this could be turned to a positive situation, although it probably won't happen overnight. You don't have to necessarily agree with someone to show respect for their position. This in itself could be a valuable lesson for any young man. You can still set a proper example without crossing whatever lines that get drawn in the sand. Sharing your positive experiences will hopefully prove your position for you over time.
Again, as long as the father has a legal right to be involved, you must find ways to operate within those boundaries. If those boundaries are unacceptable, your only choice is to find a way to remove the boundaries from the situation or to remove yourself from the situation.
I'm not trying to make this sound simple because it certainly isn't. I'm also not trying to condone an anti 2A position. I will however condone a father's right to have whatever position he wishes when it comes to raising his son.
This situation could just as easily be about which church to attend, which "lifestyles" are acceptable, or at what age the young man should be allowed to date. It's very doubtful that this will be your last difference of opinion with the father. How you handle this one could eventually have consequences relating to many other things besides just firearms.
Good luck.