rimfire_crazed
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You need to get a lawyer who doesn't know her since she too is a lawyer.
Serious as a heart attack here. It's ethics be-damned to some of these divorce practitioners.
You need to get a lawyer who doesn't know her since she too is a lawyer.
Sorry you have to go through this crap but defend yourself from being taken to the cleaners. Nice guys really finish last in the divorce game.
You need to get a lawyer who doesn't know her since she too is a lawyer.
Having to put more personal info out here than I prefer, but Im at a loss.
Had the unfortunate displeasure to discover several months worth of my wife's infidelity this past Monday. Long story short, I left the house for the day. She packed her bags and left for a hotel, and I came back to the house and have been taking care of the day to day things here. We have no kids.
She's been working while I am trying to complete my degree on GI Bill. House note is in both our names.
Tonight she says she is coming back to the house in the AM and wants me out. We moved to the sticks to start a little hobby farm out in the country, but we are well away from friends and family that I can turn to.
I really REALLY dont want to have to get the county police involved. I dont know if I legally HAVE to leave. Especially since she has already left, and is coming back to get me out just to screw with me.
Any info or links to where I can find out what my rights are in Indiana? Havent had much luck with the google fu.
... bug the phone...
No, you don't have to leave your house! Meet with a lawyer, of course.
Consider marriage counseling first, before divorce!
I may be " old fashioned" , but I believe marriage is FOREVER! It is possible to work things out! Maybe not likely, but possible.... If both of you want it to work.
I am always amazed at how easily most people give up on something they "promised" in front of GOD, family, and friends!
I'm not judging you, by any means! Good luck with whatever you choose!
No, you don't have to leave your house! Meet with a lawyer, of course.
Consider marriage counseling first, before divorce!
I may be " old fashioned" , but I believe marriage is FOREVER! It is possible to work things out! Maybe not likely, but possible.... If both of you want it to work.
I am always amazed at how easily most people give up on something they "promised" in front of GOD, family, and friends!
I'm not judging you, by any means! Good luck with whatever you choose!
We were married after I left the service.
We've been in marriage counseling. Her infidelity started while we were engaged in said counseling. It occurred over the past two months.
Im not interested in salvaging the marriage, just want to know if she can have me booted from a house that my name is on in Indiana.
She is a lawyer, which makes matters more difficult for me. I hope she still has enough respect for the law not to trump up some bull**** to have me ousted from the house. In her current mental condition I put nothing past her.
Off to find a lawyer.
Serious as a heart attack here. It's ethics be-damned to some of these divorce practitioners.
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Don't leave the house.
I would change the locks.
Petition immediately.
Follow all the advice of your attorney...... they know the routine, don't try to out think them or "work with your wife" outside of council, that WILL bite you in the buttocks.
In Indiana, this is illegal unless one of the parties involved in the phone conversation is doing the recording. This includes recording using a device not attached to the phone line (i.e. webcam with microphone).
When your gone, she might have people come over to go through and throw your things out, bug the phone/house, change the locks. Keep it civil but she is not your friend anymore.