MAYDAY help is welcomed and appreciated

[Damsel380]

What happens in Vegas doesn't always stay in Vegas. I got married there but the guy is abusive. Before I moved in with him my sig p290 was stolen. Later I found out he couldn't have guns in his house because someone had a restraining order against him. I had a 38 special and it was stolen on May 26th. I'm worried he's stalking me, there's a no contact order in place from his domestic battery charge but that only helps so much. I've reported them stolen, but I really want to get another gun to feel safe. I've only shot 1 bullet, I need to practice shooting and see what I feel comfortable with. If any of you lovely people here have suggestions on where to start I appreciate it

 

[NHT3]

A basic pistol class would be my suggestion and Parabellum is in your area and has a couple every week. Training beyond that is a must if you are considering carrying or defending yourself. Protective order is only helpful if you are dealing with someone that obeys laws. Sorry to hear you are in such a situation.

 

[Cameramonkey]

A basic pistol class would be my suggestion and Parabellum is in your area and has a couple every week. Training beyond that is a must if you are considering carrying or defending yourself. Protective order is only helpful if you are dealing with someone that obeys laws. Sorry to hear you are in such a situation.

This. Parabellum also has a rental wall so you can see what fits your hand well and you shoot well. And there you aren't renting ONE gun. If you put some rounds through the gun and you dont like it, you can unload it and take it back to the desk to swap it with another to try. The only requirement is you buy the ammo from them.

And dont be afraid to ask for help. The folks there are top notch and VERY helpful.

Good luck!

 

[2in1evtime]

Welcome to INGO, Get some training, rent some pistols to try out, see what you like or don't like, Join a gun club, lots of ways to get help and training etc. Hope things get better soon for you!

 

[BlackGun]

Greetings and to .... Hope all works out for you......

 

[KellyinAvon]

Welcome to INGO, I wish it was under better circumstances. Training and practice at Parabellum (go north on Dan Jones, next two rights after crossing the railroad bridge and you'll see it on Kingston) has been mentioned by fellow INGOers.

(What follows is based on you being a resident of Indiana.)

Q1: Have you carried a handgun before? If not and it's something you are considering, do you have a trusted friend who does carry? This could help bridge the gap with training and your current situation.

Q2: Do you have a License To Carry a Handgun (LTCH)? If not, initiate the licensing process (except for fingerprinting fee the LTCH is now free.) Don't plan to carry? Get an LTCH anyway.

In 2017 Indiana Code was changed to allow Hoosiers who have a (words may be wrong here) domestic order of protection against someone, you can carry without a license. Must not be a prohibited possessor, have initiated the LTCH process, meet the requirements for LTCH, etc.

Again, welcome to INGO and I wish the circumstances were different.

 

[GregD]

 

[patience0830]

What're you winking at mister.

 

[Twangbanger]

I assume you're not cohabitating anymore, based on the court order, so that's a good first step. Seek out a class at Parabellum, as others have said. I believe they have ladies' classes, and there is a Shoot Point Blank near you as well, although I'd consider them a second choice.

You do need to address the repetitive stolen handgun situation by learning about better storage options, which should be covered in a home defense class. I'm not one to push anyone farther than they're comfortable going, given that you've only fired 1 bullet, but given that you are in an endangered situation based on the individual's multiple past history, you are a case where I'd definitely recommend following up the home defense class with a carry class. They can help bring you to a comfort level of having the gun always on you (on-body, non-purse carry - hopefully the instructors will explain why "in a purse" is not quite good enough). This not only addresses the protection aspect, but also hopefully the (assumed) problem with having the gun stolen from your vehicle or residence while un-attended. You and the gun really need to be together, meaning pretty much always. You being with the gun keeps "it" from being stolen...it being with you hopefully keeps "you" from getting stolen.

Wow, epic first post. Welcome to INGO. Hoping things start going in a better direction...(maybe Vegas will give you a refund ).

 

[yepthatsme]

Welcome to INGO!

There is a lot of useful information on INGO concerning protecting yourself and the safe handling of firearms. When you have time, search the forums for the information you seek. All of us are willing to help with advice. If you have any questions, just ask!

 

[Ruger_Ronin]

What happens in Vegas doesn't always stay in Vegas. I got married there but the guy is abusive. Before I moved in with him my sig p290 was stolen. Later I found out he couldn't have guns in his house because someone had a restraining order against him. I had a 38 special and it was stolen on May 26th. I'm worried he's stalking me, there's a no contact order in place from his domestic battery charge but that only helps so much. I've reported them stolen, but I really want to get another gun to feel safe. I've only shot 1 bullet, I need to practice shooting and see what I feel comfortable with. If any of you lovely people here have suggestions on where to start I appreciate it

Above all, stay safe. Revere's Risers often does a ladies only pistol. They have a pistol class upcoming in Zionsville, IN next weekend. I know it's soon, but I can't recommend them enough. here are a few more links to information you can follow up on. Good luck!

2021 Marty Brown Memorial Open Round #2 – One Day Pistol (Zionsville, IN) | Revere's Riders

1-day Marty Brown Memorial Open event at Gray Property near Zionsville, IN.

www.reveresriders.org

Home

The Well Armed Woman main goal is to Educate, Equip and Empower Women Gun

thewellarmedwoman.com

Level I Ladies Guided - Default

www.parabellumfirearms.com

 

[Cameramonkey]

Above all, stay safe. Revere's Risers often does a ladies only pistol. They have a pistol class upcoming in Zionsville, IN next weekend. I know it's soon, but I can't recommend them enough. here are a few more links to information you can follow up on. Good luck!

2021 Marty Brown Memorial Open Round #2 – One Day Pistol (Zionsville, IN) | Revere's Riders

1-day Marty Brown Memorial Open event at Gray Property near Zionsville, IN.

www.reveresriders.org

Home

The Well Armed Woman main goal is to Educate, Equip and Empower Women Gun

thewellarmedwoman.com

Level I Ladies Guided - Default

www.parabellumfirearms.com

I'll second Revere's Riders. If you choose to go that route, ask staff if they have any loaner equipment and explain why you are taking the class. I am POSITIVE under the circumstances they'll find a pistol for you. You'll just need to provide ammo. I know they offer loaners for their basic rifle class.

 

[Ruger_Ronin]

I'll second Revere's Riders. If you choose to go that route, ask staff if they have any loaner equipment and explain why you are taking the class. I am POSITIVE under the circumstances they'll find a pistol for you. You'll just need to provide ammo. I know they offer loaners for their basic rifle class.

@Damsel380 - They almost always have loaners available. Just contact staff prior to class. I'd be happy to help supply some ammo to offset any costs.

Any questions just PM me and I'll do my best to help out.

 

[shadow64]

welcome

 

[hammerd13]

Welcome to this forum and I wish you all the best. Understand that you are responsible for your safety in this situation and always. It's good that you're asking for advice and the above suggestions are excellent so far.

To add to it, I'd recommend you read "Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker. This book can help you prepare for this situation and others like it. Gavin does provide some insight on restraining orders...they can be good...and bad.

Stay aware, prepare, be strong, and good on you for pursuing the knowledge.

 

[rugertoter]

Hello and welcome to the site.

 

[Magyars]

Welcome aboard......are there any family or friends who could guide you or assist you in your endeavors?
Good luck!

 

[fullmetaljesus]

Welcome to the forum.

All the advice above is spot on. I suggest following all of it.

 

[Damsel380]

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Welcome to INGO, I wish it was under better circumstances. Training and practice at Parabellum (go north on Dan Jones, next two rights after crossing the railroad bridge and you'll see it on Kingston) has been mentioned by fellow INGOers.

(What follows is based on you being a resident of Indiana.)

Q1: Have you carried a handgun before? If not and it's something you are considering, do you have a trusted friend who does carry? This could help bridge the gap with training and your current situation.

Q2: Do you have a License To Carry a Handgun (LTCH)? If not, initiate the licensing process (except for fingerprinting fee the LTCH is now free.) Don't plan to carry? Get an LTCH anyway.

In 2017 Indiana Code was changed to allow Hoosiers who have a (words may be wrong here) domestic order of protection against someone, you can carry without a license. Must not be a prohibited possessor, have initiated the LTCH process, meet the requirements for LTCH, etc.

Again, welcome to INGO and I wish the circumstances were different.

It's okay, I got my lifetime license

 

[Damsel380]

I haven't carried before. I got my lifetime LTCH a couple months ago.

Welcome to INGO, I wish it was under better circumstances. Training and practice at Parabellum (go north on Dan Jones, next two rights after crossing the railroad bridge and you'll see it on Kingston) has been mentioned by fellow INGOers.

(What follows is based on you being a resident of Indiana.)

Q1: Have you carried a handgun before? If not and it's something you are considering, do you have a trusted friend who does carry? This could help bridge the gap with training and your current situation.

Q2: Do you have a License To Carry a Handgun (LTCH)? If not, initiate the licensing process (except for fingerprinting fee the LTCH is now free.) Don't plan to carry? Get an LTCH anyway.

In 2017 Indiana Code was changed to allow Hoosiers who have a (words may be wrong here) domestic order of protection against someone, you can carry without a license. Must not be a prohibited possessor, have initiated the LTCH process, meet the requirements for LTCH, etc.

Again, welcome to INGO and I wish the circumstances were different.

Thanks for the warm welcome! I got my LTCH a couple months ago but I've never carried before. I've gone through YouTube watching different safety and training videos but that's as far as I've got. I'm going to take the advice on going to Parabellum in the near future. Thanks everyone for the tips here, much appreciated!