AngryRooster
Master
Say your at a restaurant and are already eating, do you pay for you meal?
That's been discussed a few times on here before. Some people said yes, some said no, almost everyone said they would leave a nice tip because it wasn't the servers fault (unless it was).
Myself, I will not pay for a meal I haven't finished before I was told to leave. I will also not volunteer to leave before they have made it clear they are asking me to do so. Most of the time I don't patronize a place that has a sign. If they don't have a sign and come up to me and ask me to cover it up, the answer would be no. (No likely since I don't open carry very often at all). If they ask me to leave it in the car, the answer is no. I then ask them if they are asking me to leave.
If they hem-haw around then I continue to eat until I finish or something changes. I pay my bill directly to the manager and explain why I, along with every other member of my family, will never be back. I explain that I will make sure all 38,210 members of this forum will be told the situation and how it was handled. I hand him a "no guns, no cash" card before I leave.
If they say yes, we are asking you to leave, then I do exactly that, right then and there. I do not pay for an uncompleted product or service. I go home and contact the manager AND corporate and explain the above to them over the phone. If corporate tells me that isn't the policy and the manager took it upon himself to do what he did then I ask corporate to explain to the manager that he can apologize to me and my guests at the restaurant, right there at the checkout or a table. They embarrassed my and my family in public, they can apologize right there as well.
I will leave a nice tip unless I have evidence the server had something to do with the situation. In that case I do not tip at all. I usually have a voice recorder either with me or in the car most of the time. It fits nicely in a Fobus Glock 45 single mag pouch. Whenever I'm out for anything more than a quick post office or fuel trip it gets turned on. I make sure they explain to me that they are the ones asking me to leave. If I get up on my own and volunteer to leave then that's on me, not them. If they get really y and call the police because I didn't want to pay for my meal then they get to listen to me offer to stay & finish and pay the check, or them ordering me out of the restaurant before I'm finished.
I go out of my way not to cause any problems when I'm out with others at various places. The last thing I want to do is ruin an evening over something senseless as this. I make sure everything is concealed well and I don't expose it accidentally. I've requested different tables and changed places with others at the table to make sure of this when necessary. Most of the time everything is just fine. Only twice it's ever been an issue. Once I was told to leave, the other time they backed off when I told them I wasn't putting it in the car. Both times I got the snivel and whine BS from corporate and many apologies, but it was for the comfort of the guests. I asked them if I was considered a guest or not. One of them flat out told me, "We don't consider you a guest anymore" the other gave me the 'feelings of the many' line. I've not been back to either place.
Just my .