I started my wife with a Walther P22. She learned how to hit the target, rather consistently. Only two problems: 1) it's a .22lr, and 2) she kept getting confused on how to reload, charge it, deal with a safety, etc. Practice does not make perfect with her. She has the attention span of a gnat. (Sorry Honey) I knew the only logical (and safe) option was a revolver. So off we go... 4" .38...NO. 2" .38.... double NO. Keltec .380... HELL NO. We finally "settled" on a 4" ..22Mag. Hey, I know.... I wish she could handle a 9mm or a .45, but it just ain't in the cards. I'd rather she have the ability, knowledge, and confidence in a .22MAG, instead of knowing all she can do is throw a 3 lb. hunk of steel at the bad guy. And PLUS... we're still married. LOL