HFB, I have probably come across as an a-hole, but you seem like a really good dude and I'm just trying to break it down for you before you get too invested in this girl and things get way worse(ie harder for you to break up with her down the road because you've grown more attacked to her).
bj makes a really good point. but w/e you do, please do not grow more attacked to her. thats never the answer.