I currently have an XDS 9 4.0 and I love he gun however I need something with a smaller barrel for appendex carry. I usually pinch my vital man parts when sitting down with the 4 inch barrel. I also need to get my wife a 9mm and she likes my XDS so I'll probably give her that. I love the XDS platform but a good amount of friends have the 43 and it seems to be a solid weapon as well. I also really like the sig P938 a lot and I am considering that since I am getting rid of my 1911. Any feedback or opinions on these would be appreciated. Thanks!