I have my yearly bonus coming in a couple weeksand Im done procrastinating, Im getting my (and my wife's)LTCH and a new piece to carry. I have handled these 3 in LGS and Im leaning toward the XDm (not because this stupid add keeps flashing above the thread either) It just seems to fit my hand best. I have actually shot a Glock 17 and an XDm, but there is something about the Sig that keeps me looking at it. Im stuck on 9mm because I have a 9mm Ruger and C9 and have the ammo in surplus, and it is a very manageable round as far as recoil, target reaquisition, and the weight it adds to the weapon. Im sure some of you have fired all three, and I would like your opinions.