A gun that you are comfortable shooting is always better than trying to force yourself to adapt to something that is just uncomfortable for you!
I, personally, prefer revolvers...and have an SP101 in .357 that is my every day carry gun! I have a Gen II Glock 23 in .40 that I'm getting used to...but don't carry very often! My wife's favorite is her Gen II Glock 19 in 9mm...but she is getting used to my SP101! Several friends also carry revolvers!
Talk to people and see what they carry and like best about their carry pistol and see if you can shoot several of them! Find one you like...and go from there!
Best!
I, personally, prefer revolvers...and have an SP101 in .357 that is my every day carry gun! I have a Gen II Glock 23 in .40 that I'm getting used to...but don't carry very often! My wife's favorite is her Gen II Glock 19 in 9mm...but she is getting used to my SP101! Several friends also carry revolvers!
Talk to people and see what they carry and like best about their carry pistol and see if you can shoot several of them! Find one you like...and go from there!
Best!