So what would you have thought if a charity offered to pay you to get fixed telling you that they don't care about you, they just don't want you to have more children? Would you rather get $200 of help to get you out of the abusive situation you are in or be left there only to give the charity a warm and fuzzy knowing they won't have to contribute to more of your children?
I probably wouldn't have been a likely candidate for their program. I was only 17 and only had one child. I wouldn't have accepted sterilization at that point in my life.
I was able to leave my situation instead of accepting it as my normal. Some women can't or won't leave. The more children a woman has the more vulnerable she is. For women who already have two or more children with no plan to leave, this would be an option to consider.