If you've already made up your mind about dumping the 5.56 mil then this advice isn't for you. But if you reconsider and you're looking for a defense, hog-busting, bad ass round in that caliber try the Hornady TAP 75 gr OTBT (Open Tip Boat Tail.)
This is what I was thinking. NATO rounds are all FMJ, we don't use that in our pistols, why would we think that it is a stopper in a rifle?
Have you ever seen what a varmint grenade will do to a critter? Sure it doesn't have penetration but the damage...