If one examines the issue from a purely constitutional viewpoint, as dictated by separation of church and state doctrine, all "marriages" are civil unions
Unfortunately, they have involved themselves in it for many, many decades and aren't likely to uninvolve themselves. One of the major cases currently before SCOTUS WILL, if decided properly, get the feds out of one aspect of the marriage issue. It could see DOMA overturned and would end their involvement in recognition as one thing or another.I think the government should stay out of it, it's not their realm of authority.
Unfortunately, they have involved themselves in it for many, many decades and aren't likely to uninvolve themselves. One of the major cases currently before SCOTUS WILL, if decided properly, get the feds out of one aspect of the marriage issue. It could see DOMA overturned and would end their involvement in recognition as one thing or another.
Well, apparently you're going to have it forced on you and you'll have to get divorced and married to a same sex partner, according to someone.As a homophobe, I've changed my opinion over the last 7-10 years. I paused to look around me and found many gay couple living, for want of another word, normal marriages. Some became gay after normal marriages. Almost all the couples I know have children, or grandchildren that are normal, BION. They even know how the adults live and aren't bothered by it as far as I can tell.
I've decided to live and let live. I'm not gay if you're questioning that too.
Well, apparently you're going to have it forced on you and you'll have to get divorced and married to a same sex partner, according to someone.
That happens a lot too. It gives them legal standing.And exactly how is that different than a straight couple?
BTW, the issue as I've had it explained to me boils down to this, more than anything.
If Bob dies, Joe, his partner of 30 years ends up in a legal inheritance suit with offspring, and even exes. This even includes property fights on the house the two bought together. This has been the crux for years.
When I say 'pushing it on me, I mean it like 'hitting' on me for instance. If you hit on me, I'll take it in stride and politely say "No." Keep pushing, and it could become something else.
Why do we "need" the government to recognize anything?
The overturning of abortion laws and sodomy laws goes against your thoughts.
Those "actions" were outlawed but enough people worked to overturn those laws.
One could argue there are many cases of what some would call legal murder now. .
Why do we "need" the government to recognize anything?