The newer generation of Glocks have really stepped things up. Even previous generations with some customization were some of my favorites. Wilson Combat does fantastic Glock customization for previous generations that improved the overall shooting experience.
Check out Clinger Holsters. Their holster for the P365 checks most of those requirements other than price, but they're going for $59 right now
https://clingerholsters.com/sig-p365-holsters/
Regular price is at $35.98 right now but if you spin the prize wheel and get 5% off it bring the price down to $34.48. If you get 3 of them or just $100 in total Sig accessories you get free shipping.
Another recommendation for the Relentless Tactical belts. I've been very happy with the quality of the leather, no stretching/sagging and it's good looking.
https://relentless-tactical.com/
In the market for a new sub-compact and wanted to get some recommendations from others. I have fairly large hands and want something that's going to provide good control. I've shot the Sig P365 with the extended 12 round and that was good, but I'm sure there are a lot of options I haven't...
I've been through that with a couple friends. My girlfriend ended up getting a Kimber micro .380 after trying quite a few others. I also have another friend who loves the Sig P238 like several others have mentioned.