I'm afraid the problem is lack of "Living Time." One advantage to getting older is that you have actually lived the things that young people only read about.
I agree with you---the MODS' attitude, well two at least, is saddening. This place sure changed in a year, and I'm sad that I ever paid money to be a Site Supporter. I got infracted for saying that I deal with people more childish and manipulative than LOBO and that he didn't bother me---I just wanted him to STFU and stop trolling. Oh well. Politics and all that at work, and apparently here too